by Coyote Goodfellow » October 5th, 2006, 5:28 pm
I was not homeschooled, but I just finished working on a Guatemalan volunteer program with two people in their mid-twenties who (along with 5+ siblings in each case) were. The one had a father who was a Landmark Baptist preacher, the other a father who was an atheist Marxist. I was actually very impressed with both of them, both in terms of social skills, self-confidence, and intellectual capacity. They also seemed fairly tolerant.
I spent a lot more time with the guy whose father was landmark Baptist, and was impressed by the range of conversation topics we covered, everything from Tolkien, to comic books, to Marxism, to a book he was reading about whether the King James Version was divinely inspired. However, he seemed to have some sense of the potential dangers of insularity. He told me that he gave a speech to his local homeschooling group pointing out that History should include perspectives critical of Martin Luther, or other Protestant icons, so that when people get to college they aren't totally blindsided by the existence of people who see Luther as an antisemite, or question other aspects of their worldview. It doesn't seem very likely that he will leave the church, broadly defined, but he was talking about how he wanted to talk with his parents about questioning some of the tenets of his particular church...but I doubt that has much to do with homeschooling. His parents seemed an interesting combination. He said that his dad listened to the doors, but was worried when he found out he was reading people like Menno Simons, and similar 16th century Anabaptist Christians.
I also worked with a 15 year old last summer who was homeschooled, and was also impressed with his personality and work ethic. I have to admit I felt much better after I learned that he participated in a soccer team with a local High School.
I do have certain ideological doubts about homeschooling, but the actual products who I've seen have generally been quite impressive. As some one said above its the living witness which persuades more than the reasoning.