Butr then,this phenomen must be found also in other high developed mammals-I´m not discussing evolution here- it´s just a fact that we are in the strict biological sense mammals.
What bothers me is that I cannot see a strict relation between a more androgyn appearance and homosxuality. Okay. that´s the common prejudice, but the only thing I observed is that sometimes in a same-sex relation one partner has a more masculine apppearance and the other one a more feminine. I only know two lesbian women, who actually have masculine features. and there is only one gay man who really is effaminate.We were friends from Kindergarten till he and his partner decided to live very far away from our home.
What I never understood very well- as a child and a teenager he just was a soft-one. That I liked very much , because I grew up with an older step-brother and a total rascal of a little brother. So I never got along real good with girls ( they were so girlish ), but it was hard to stand my ground against the boys.Back to theme. Everything was fine in our friendship, but the moment he started a partnership with a somewhat older man, he - my truest friend since childhood, became GIRLISH.
For example we always had enjoyed to go on long walks and helped each other - I pulled him over high stones , he carried me when the water became to deep and suddenly he behaved like the most stupid girls I knew and worse. I really doubt it, that there is a biological explanation for this. O, by the way he was a firstborn son.
